Although the world might be outraged with yesterday’s happenings, Kevin Federline has no problem with Britney Spears decision to not show up to court.
A source close to K-Fed told PageSix,
Kevin is thrilled with the decision. It is his goal to make sure Britney does not get any visitation or custody rights until she agrees to get help for her mental condition.
And it Kevin certainly got his wish yesterday. Britney will not be able to see those babies of her until at least February 19, when the next hearing in the case is scheduled.
The source revealed that Britney’s father, Jamie, is upset by his daughter’s behavior during the custody trial.
He told Kevin that he does not understand how Britney can take such a chance with the boys and their future with her.
And even though Britney has been calling Kevin every day, she has yet to make contact with Sean and Jayden. “Kevin will not let her talk to the boys at this point because she is not showing any coherency when she calls.”
Must be the slurring and that HORRIBLE British accent of hers.
Please don’t believe bullshit like this. She probably is incoherant but still, this is utter bollocks and if K-fed cared about Britney at all he wouldn’t be letting insiders spill info, or be talking about her conversations with him.
Britney sorrounds herself with people who spill secrets about her, and even when people warn her, she still hangs out with them. She could not be exploited this much, if she didn’t let herself get exploited.
Just wondering do you believe Sam, Alli and Adnan care about her?
Are you asking me, Adam or C.?
Oh they may care about her in some small way, but I think it’s clear that Sam, Ali and Adnan are more worried about benefitting from Brit than actually helping her.
Actually to tell the truth, I wouldn’t let someone I loved out of the house looking like Britney does. Would you?
How very shallow…
Shallow to say that you wouldn’t let a loved one walk out of the house looking like they hadn’t bathed in years, looking like a mental patient, looking half dead, looking druged up?
Oh, that’s right Adam, you live on a different planet where it’s ok for people to waste away as long as they amuse YOU.
“…if K-fed cared about Britney at all he wouldn’t be letting insiders spill info…”
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Yeah, ‘cuz that’s SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH WORSE than their mother flashing her vag, stealing, starving the kids, dropping them, placing them in harm’s way just so she can get a frap, doing all kinds of drugs, screaming profanities at people while she has the kids, and let’s not forget, TRAUMATIZING HER OWN CHILDREN BY HOLDING THEM HOSTAGE. YEP, THAT’S MUCH WORSE THAN WHAT THE PEOPLE AROUND KEVIN MIGHT BE DOING WITH OR WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. MUCH, MUCH WORSE……..
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This folks, is why we call them FANTARDS!!!!!!!!!!!
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HEY ADAM, YOUR “BRITNEY STRAP-ON FANTASY PARTNER” JORDAN JUST CALLED. HE SAID THAT ALTHOUGH ALL THE MISSING DOORKNOBS FROM HIS HOUSE HAVE MYSTERIOUSLY RETURNED WITH A FOUL-SMELLING ODOR, HIS COLLECTION OF ANTIQUE BOWLING PINS DISAPPEARED SINCE YOUR LAST VISIT, THAT ONE WHERE YOU WALKED AWAY WITH A SEVERE AND NOTICABLE LIMP.
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HE ALSO SAID THERE’S NOT MUCH POINT IN DEFENDING BRITNEY BY ATTACKING HER CRITICS OR THOSE AROUND HER, LIKE KEVIN. THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN HELP BRITNEY IS BRITNEY, AND SHE WON’T FIND HELP IN STARBUCKS, RITE-AID, OR A GAS STATION BATHROOM, JUST FRAPS, CHEAP LIP BALM, AND STAPH INFECTIONS OR LINES OF COKE, RESPECTIVELY. OH YES, HE ALSO SAID YOU WERE A FANTARD WHO CAN’T UNDERSTAND HOW RIDICULOUS YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR OWN WORDS MAKE YOU LOOK, OR JUST HOW BADLY YOU’RE BEING HUMILIATED ON THIS BLOG. THEN HE CALLED YOU A FANTARD AGAIN. THEN HE CRIED BECAUSE HE REALLY MISSES THOSE ANTIQUE BOWLING PINS, YOU SELFISH, ASS-STUFFING FANTARD! BUY YOUR OWN BOWLING PINS AT RITE-AID AND MAYBE YOU’LL SEE BRITNEY THERE, AT WHICH POINT SHE’LL SCREAM PROFANITIES AND TELL YOU TO GET THE F*CK OUT OF HER WAY. YEP, IT’S ALL BEEN WORTH IT, HUH?
Yes, how very humiliating. Did you purposley miss my point all together? Did you read it, read the next sentence and then forget and draw your own conclusions. I think so. What had Jordan got to do with this, she’s nothing to do with Britney. All she does is got big tits and used to do page 3. And please keep me outta your perverted fantases in the future. Freak.
Did you ever think that maybeit’s the people close to Britney selling her secrets without consulting Kfed first? I mean Sam is all up in the tabloid’s business, and Adnan actually works for them, and Ali just did a whole article apparently.
If they are selling “secrets” they are soley about Britney and/or her children. Never about Kevin. But that wasn’t my point but w/e.
I never said they were selling secrets about Kevin. Britney’s people have been known to sell secrets about her before she ever met Kfed and I doubt they’ve ever talked to Kevin about selling those pictures. Just because no one sells secrets about Kevin doesn’t mean shit. Kevin does not leas the secretive life that Britney does.
actually, britney has it all hanging out. kevin seems to be the one who’s secretive. it’s always the ones you haven’t heard about that you’re shocked by.
Britney has it all hanging out but she still wants to deny what the world has known about her for years. The only reason why these tabloids have any power over her is because she refuses to give a straight answer or in any way be honest or accountable about her actions. She still thinks she can fool people into thinking she’s little miss church girl. It’s always the same thing with her: perform outrageous behaviour to stir controvercy with the hope of beefing up sales, and then as soon as the tabloids say “Bad BRitney” she then withdraws in to her fake innocense and complains about the tabloid lies. I’d have 300% more respect for her if she would just do something awful and for once not lie about it, and for once not have her fans lie about her.
And it’s sad that from faulting Kfed for supposedly using Britney, that the fact that he isn’t speaking out about his life is being seen as a bad thing, when you know darn well that people like Jenn and Adam woul;d only accuse him of exploiting Britney if he did.
um, sure. whatever. britney has enough problems without being crapped on even more. of course people exploit her. you don’t exploit someone who’s already as messed up as she is. selling stories about her serves exactly what purpose? does it help her mental state or her sons’ suffering with their mom being so incapacitated? does it get her into a good facility? no, no and no. it simply serves the purpose of getting someone a fat paycheck and amusing some readers at her expense. if you’re going to the media with the intent of getting her help… well, then you’re dr. phil. not liking federline doesn’t make you a fantard since i notice that mikeg doesn’t care for him either. you’re opinionated and that’s all you are.
Of course you shouldn’t exploit someone in her postion, but if KFed stays silent he is accused of one thing, and if he speaks up then you accuse him of another. Talking about psychology is something that needs to be done. It won’t get her help but it will help gain awarenees that we need to change our health system. But you were the one calling Kfed secretive because he didn’t speak up, but now you are agreeing with me that if he spoke up it would be seen as exploitation. Shit girl, it’s not my fault that you damn people if they do, and damn them if they don’t. That’s all your problem, not mine.
Yes, we need to change our health care system. It’s antiquated. Mental illness needs to be spoken about, no question. I find Britney secretive, because I think she was taught to be. I think she was a puppet so long, that now that her strings are cut, she has no idea what to do with herself, and being a mentally unstable person doesn’t help. KFed seems secretive, but I give him credit for not running to the media and insulting the mother of his kids. I think someone who leaves for Europe and leaves the mother of his (first) two children not knowing where he is has to be secretive. Has he grown up? Hope so. I don’t always agree with you; sometimes I do. Mikeg once said we have the same thoughts, but from different viewpoints. But I didn’t damn anyone; I just don’t agree that if you feel a certain way, you should be labeled a fantard as though feeling sorry for her or not liking people feeding off the mentally ill makes you a Britney fanatic who believes she is just fine right now.
Honey, you said he was secretive because he didn’t speak up and then you agreed with me that if he did he’d be accused of exploiting her. That’s damning a person.
all i said was: he seems secretive. i never gave a reason. he just does.
i’m wrong- i did give a reason and it was his sneaking off to europe while shar was pregnant. just looke back.
looked back i mean.
“…Did you purposley miss my point all together?…”
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Yes, it was deliberate. You have nothing interesting to say other than providing material THAT MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE THE STUPIDEST PERSON ON THE PLANET!!!!! THAT’S WHY YOU’RE JORDAN’S B*TCH, YOU’RE EVEN DUMBER THAN HE IS!!!!!!
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“…What had Jordan got to do with this, she’s nothing to do with Britney…”
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Wrong Jordan (you know who is is…there’s playing stupid, and being stupid…you seem to have them both down pat, but you’re not fooling anyone). Don’t worry, britney won’t be jealous if she finds out you let a wussed-out mammas boy piledrive your pooper just so you can fantasize that it’s britney doing that to you with a strap on, BECAUSE BRITNEY HATES YOU!!!!!!!!!
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“…And please keep me outta your perverted fantases in the future…”
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As soon as you put A FOREIGN OBJECTS BAN ON YOUR RECTUM YOU FANTARD!!!!!
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PULL THAT GI JOE WITH A KUNG-FU GRIP, THE PICTURE OF YOUR JUNIOR HIGH GYM COACH, AND THAT ROLL OF LIFESAVERS YOU STOLE FROM A BABY OUT OF YOUR RECTUM AND MAYBE YOU’LL THINK CLEARLY ENOUGH TO REALIZE HOW MUCH OF YOUR LIFE YOU WASTED BY WORSHIPPING BRITNEY!!!!!
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I JUST TELL YOU TO SUCK IT, BUT IF BRITNEY EVER MET YOU ADAM SHE’D TELL YOU TO “F*CK OFF”!!!! AND YET YOU STILL WORSHIP HER YOU ASS-STUFFING FANTARD!!!! YOU STILL DO WHAT YOU THINK IS HER BIDDING!!!! FOOL!!! BRITNEY DOESN’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU OR WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY!!! MOST OF THE PEOPLE HERE DON’T EITHER, EXCEPT THAT IT’S SO ENTERTAINING TO SEE THE DELUSIONAL AND UTTERLY HOPELESS THINGS YOU WRITE!!!! PROBABLY WITH JUST ONE HAND BECAUSE THE OTHER IS BUSY ASS-CRAMMING!!!
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By the way, Jordan called, and he said he’d take you back and you could be his b*tch again if you return his collection of antique bowling pins YOU’VE GOT RAMMED UP YOUR POOPER!!! WHOOPS! SHOULD HAVE ADDED THAT ONE TO THE LIST, HUH?
As I’ve said before, KFed seems to be maturing from this situation, meanwhile Britney is continuing her slow descent into madness.
I’m still wondering what unspeakable crime Jamies did that Britney hated him for so long for. Other than being an out of work drunk (which she couldn’t hate him too much for if she’s then going to marry Kfed), that’s enough but Britney has never actually said what her father did to her that was so horrible. I’m beginning to get glimmers of hints that maybe, just maybe, Jamie was the voice of wisdom speaking out against Lynne ssexploiting his daughter. It’s just a theory, I’ve got no proof except for the fact that 1) he is angered by Lynne selling JL’s story to a tabloid 2) he’s upset with BRitney now, and 3) in Chaotic, at Brit’s wedding recpetion, there’s a scene where Janie pulls the hem of Brit’s dress down to cover her previously exposed butt….hmmmm????
“…As I’ve said before, KFed seems to be maturing from this situation…”
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I really hope he’s growing as a father, and perhaps seeing britney crash and burn motivates him to avoid that path, but honestly, I don’t think thats the case. IMO, I think he’s just playing it “smart”-just lay low enough until britney screws everything up herself.
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If he was really in it for the kids, he would have a more affordable house, not be spending an unGodly amount of money on clothes each month, and putting money away for the kids education, since britney’s earning power is sagging lower than her unholstered breasts and she’s going to snort up the rest of the money real fast unless she’s committed.
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Who gets a freakin’ mowhawk when going to court? He shouldn’t be going to Vegas or partying with super skank Paris Hilton. He doesn’t have to give up his life completely, but his other actions aren’t pointing in the right direction.
Your right, he shouldn’t have worn the mohawk to court. His house might be for the kids to protect them from the papz. However, the laying low part, which does sound like KFed, may also be at the order of his lawyer. Any good lawyer is going to take one look at Kfed and realize he’s a dumbass but whatever, and then they are going to take a look at Britney and realize that she’s cuckoo for cocoa puffs, and they are going to realize that Britney is going to take her own self down. Any lawyer worth his salt is going to telll Kfed to stay on the download and let Britney hang herself.
Kfed apparently is trying to get a job working as a producer, so my guess is once this custody battle is over he’ll stay pretty low key and we will stop hearing so much about him. He’s adumb ass, but it just goes to show that Britney has a bad taste in men. And why the heck should we pity her for what Adnan is doing to her if she didn’t learn from being with Kfed, especially since she’s been warned?
I may be wrong but I thought the mohawk was for his part which may be recurring.
Also in all honesty. Wearing a mohawk with a suit is not going to make much difference. In the grand scheme of things he was dressed appropriately for court. His hair wasn’t in an elaborate mohawk or something with various colors and what not.
One big difference I see between Kevin & Britney is that one is willing to listen to their counsel and the other is not. I also believe that if Kaplan told him the Mohawk had to go it would be GONE
“…is house might be for the kids to protect them from the papz…”
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Good point, and I guess I should have commended him for at least shielding the kids from them when they’re in his care.
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“…However, the laying low part, which does sound like KFed, may also be at the order of his lawyer…”
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You mean some people actually listen to their lawyer and heed their advice? Gasp!
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“…Any good lawyer is going to take one look at Kfed and realize he’s a dumbass…”
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Remove “Any good lawyer” and insert “Anybody”, well EXCEPT FOR BRITNEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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“…He’s adumb ass, but it just goes to show that Britney has a bad taste in men…”
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She has bad taste IN EVERYTHING!!!! EVERYTHING!!! SERIOUSLY, I’M NOT JOKING HERE!!!! SHE HAS BAD TASTE IN EVERYTHING!!!!!!!
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“…And why the heck should we pity her for what Adnan is doing to her if she didn’t learn from being with Kfed…”
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Adnan is doing what he is told.
I don’t think Jamie was always a drunk. I remember years ago her brother was interviewed and he tried to explain why he hated Britney so much and he said that his childhood was crap because of her. He said there were several years where Brit and her mom were living almost full time in NY? and his father was working 2-3 jobs at a time trying to keep the family going at home and paying for all the expenses Brit and mom were running up. Brian said that he didn’t even hardly know Brit because he saw her so infrequently and he was angry because he had to grow up without any parents. I suspect that Brit was angry at Jamie because he lost it at some point and wasn’t supporting her anymore. Or maybe because mom had to actually get involved with the other kids. I’m pretty sure it was probably for some purely selfish reason.
I never saw that interview with Bryan, but one can only wonder how he must have felt with a mother doting over two daughters but abandoning him to his father. I know Jamie is said to have gone through rehab, and we don’t hear reports of him doing anything stupid, so it seems he cooperated with his healing process.
Brit needs a family consultant with experience in child welfare and an ability to do some personal coaching (I know one…). She can pull this off if she can bring together the resources she already has and update her mental maps to match this new life context. She’s not crazy, just under a lot of pressure.
I agree that she needs parenting coaching. I disagree that she’s not crazy. She needs a LOT of help. Parenting coaching is only one of many things she needs.
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Unfortunately, she’s not at all interested in GETTING any help, and until she wakes up to herself and her life, she’s going to continue on her downward spiral.
A Family Consultant will help but she needs far more than that. She is troubled and ignoring that will not make it not so. Forget what you hear about in writing. If you go by documented, unbiased sources she is still messed up in the brain
The girl has issues. Without any information other than just what you saw on tape yesterday shows that. And you can’t excuse it away. She is a messed up in the brain individual.
“…The girl has issues…”
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and zits…and cold sores…and according to the sales associate helping her at the mall, bald spots…and a really bad temper…and only one pair of boots…and grease stains on her shirts, although that could be from her EXPLODING CHIN ZITS, and a couple of neglected dogs she’s going to start calling “Sean Preston” and “Jayden James”….and one serious freakin’ amphetamine addiction…and a stolen wig…and a stolen lighter…and THE WORST CHOICE IN MEN THE WORLD HAS EVER SEEN.
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“…And you can’t excuse it away…”
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That doesn’t stop the fantards from trying, WHICH IS WHY THEY’RE CALLED FANTARDS.
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“…Forget what you hear about in writing…”
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I don’t think thats possible, but you can forget what you see in writing or what you hear from somebody reading aloud…
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“…She is a messed up in the brain individual…”
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I would be willing to bet her parts below the waist are pretty messed up too. For one, SHE DOESN’T BATHE. There’s probably a couple of STDs running around down there too.
Mike, the one good point you brought up is she has the money to get a good team behind her, and get the best help that money can offer. So why isn’t she doing this? Why would a caring mother choose not to utilize the tools she has to help her regain custody?
Pressure causes stress. So what you are implying is that she can not cope with stress. But that is one of the definitions of mental illness. She can not cope with the pressure. Now ask yourself why she can’t if she has access to the best team money can buy.
Though it’s nice to see some kindness aimed her way, I have to say that Britney shows more and more signs of being manic-depressive or bipolar. I always thought it, but hoped I was wrong because it’s severe and terrible. Your body chemistry just doesn’t allow for sanity and what looks like selfishness or looniness to the rest of the world makes perfect sense to you because your own body is working against you. If I were to guess, I would say she keeps going out in an attempt to find something to do or somewhere to be or something to break up the monotony of doing nothing. For someone who worked as hard and long as she did, to do nothing all this time can’t sit easily. She’s still in there somewhere, but she’s buried awfully deep. Just that she’s now speaking with fake accents is even more of a danger sign; that she’s doing odd things like suddenly wearing her reception dress out in public; trying to go to church; all these things point to someone looking to step completely outside herself. Initially she thought acheiving her goals would fulfill her; then it was a family and marriage; then it was returning to partying days she’d once longed to leave behind; she is trying to fill a giant hole that she has no idea needs to be filled with self awareness, a lot of personal work, and beginning to haul herself back to her feet. I don’t think what I strongly see as a chemical imbalance will allow this any time soon. The fact that she seems to even be giving up on her sons is yet another red flag. She may think they’re better off without her. All of this points to a very sick mind in desperate need of hospitalization, therapy and medication that is right for her and administered in proper doses. Even her taking Prozac in an attempt to ward off the pain (I read she’s taken it for years) may be screwing up her levels and making her worse. She is not equipped to be her own pharmacist. Godspeed, Britney. GET HELP.
“…what looks like selfishness or looniness to the rest of the world makes perfect sense to you because your own body is working against you…”
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Hell, the only work her body is doing is that her nipples are racing each other to the ground!!! Seriously, you could take a brick, shape it for maximum aerodynamic efficiency, then dip it in lead and have Shaquille O’Neal throw it straight down a ten story building, and britney’s nipples WOULD STILL BEAT IT TO THE CONCRETE, EVEN WITH A FIVE SECOND HEAD-START. THATS WHY YOU SHOULD WEAR A BRA, BRITNEY, IT HELPS WITH THAT STUFF.
mikey, you never disappoint, do you? i promised to stop burning my bra long enough to listen, but you have a sicker mind than that guy in “saw”. i actually think her body looks quite good, but i’m female and i doubt my words carry that much weight. i think those skin and bones photos of rachel bilson are way creepier. but to each HER own.
“…you have a sicker mind than that guy in “saw”…”
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Ummm, thanks? The first Saw was a good movie; haunting, a couple great twits (literally, pun intended, but in in the plot too) but the sequels were lousy.
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britney can have her saggy breasts, I’m just going for laughs there, I JUST WISH SHE’D KEEP THOSE THINGS COVERED UP SO WE DIDN’T HAVE TO SEE THEM!!!! Maybe if she built a house COMPOSED ENTIRELY OF GAS STATION BATHROOMS AND A STARBUCKS WE’D NEVER SEE HER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
i actually never saw the film. your description just made me cringe.
“…a couple great twits…”
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Whoops!!!! Guess I shouldn’t type before the morning coffee kicks in. It should have been “twists”.
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The first one was pretty good, but the only type of people who’ll like it are film buffs because they can look past the gore and get to the more academic nature of film making. The horror fans and the goths would like it just because it is that type of film. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who gets “bothered” by some of the stuff they see on TV or who cry at Charmin commercials. Part of the reason why the sequels didn’t rise to the same level as the original was because you learned to expect the unexpected and you knew the protagonist was never anywhere close to victory.
She goes out for the monotony and yet with all the money she has she goes to gas stations and starbucks? So tell me what would you do if you had her money and could travel anywhere, and pursue any hobby? She is totally messed up.
ah, but i’m not bipolar. if i had her money, oh, god, would i love to travel. i don’t think she knows what to do with herself and that’s why she drives aimlessly and wanders around doing useless things. i’d say thank god, no clubs, but i’m not sure that anything she’s doing at this point is healthy.
“…Though it’s nice to see some kindness aimed her way…”
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Too bad there aren’t any cannons, or some cruise missles aimed her way. The world could really use a happy accident right now.
Well, she shouldn’t have visitation or custody rights until she agrees to get help for her mental condition. That’s a no brainer.
exyank, I agree completely. Sadly, I am not sure if she will ever agree to get help but I can see her getting pregnant again - ON PURPOSE
That came up a while back, she can’t have these kids anymore so she’ll just get pregnant again and get Adnan to sign away all the rights. I believe we’re calling it “RCT” for “Replacement Child Theory”, but hey man, it’s a free country (kinda). Call it want you want.
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We should start a betting pool, no money involved, to pick a date she announces she’s pregnant. I’d hate to see it, but I’d be willing to bet it’ll happen.
Well, that’s one theory, but in fact, you can’t “sign away rights” in that way, as far as I know, and a contract like that probably wouldn’t hold up in court.
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And anyway, no matter what contract she gets someone to sign, if she got pregnant again, CPS would be all over her like flies on manure. She’s been shown to the satisfaction of a court of law that she’s a danger to her children and unfit parent. Child Protective Services would act as swiftly as they possibly could to remove the child from her custody.
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At least, I’d like to hope that would be the case.
“…CPS would be all over her like flies on manure…”
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Just like the flies on britney. THEY ARE ALL OVER THAT B*TCH!!!!!!! BUG-ZAPPER SALES IN CALIFORNIA ARE AT AN ALL TIME LOW BECAUSE BRITNEY IS DRAWING THE FLIES IN FROM A TEN COUNTY RADIUS!!!!!!!! HELL, HER VAJAJAY ALONE SUPPORTS OVER ONE THOUSAND DIFFERENT SPECIES OF FLIES, NOT TO MENTION A FAMILY OF RABID MUSKRATS AND AN ELDERLY VULTURE THAT IS BLIND IN ONE EYE!!!!!! OH YEAH, AND SHE’S GOT A YEAST INFECTION TOO!!!!! THIS IS A NASTY, SKANKY WOMAN!!!!! SUCK IT FANTARDS, SUCK IT!!!! THIS IS WHO YOU WORSHIP AND FANTASIZE ABOUT YOU FREAKS!!!!!!! YOU ARE SICK, AND THERE’S ONLY ONE PRESCRIPTION!!!!!!! NO IT’S NOT MORE COWBELL, SUCK IT!!!!!!!! SUCK IT GOOD, YEAH!!!!!!!
Well apparently someone bought a pregnancy test today.
“no brainer” = britney
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Get it? MONGO LIKE CANDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“…He told Kevin that he does not understand how Britney can take such a chance with the boys and their future with her….”
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Simple. THERE WAS A SALE AT MACY’S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
britney loves and cares about her children. she really does. but that britney ( mother ) is gone. and when i mean gone, i mean she has buried her deep in her mind, now we have british brit, she is angry and mean.
at court she was britney for a second, cuz she went there, then she became baby brit cuz that is her safe place to not deal with her kids.
i believe she is schizophrenic, well, that being the major illness, with others coming to the surface.
it is not about her not wanting to, i am sure she does, but cuz of her illness she cannot, she is barely functioning.
“…britney loves and cares about her children…”
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phhhbbbfhhttt!!!!!! Huh?! What?!
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“…i mean she has buried her deep in her mind…”
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I’d be willing there are some things buried much deeper, just a little south of there…much, much deeper…lots of things….
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“…now we have british brit…”
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Too bad we couldn’t have “fully clothed” brit, or “stay at home” brit, JUST FOR A DAY, YOU MERCILESS CAMERA WHORE!!!!!!!!!
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“…then she became baby brit cuz that is her safe place to not deal with her kids…”
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There is nothing about britney, and babies, that could ever be considered safe. NEVER!!!!! EVER!!!!
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“…with others coming to the surface…”
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Panties, and probably more penicillin than any one human can possibly bear, might help her with that coming to surface stuff….
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Finally:
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“…it is not about her not wanting to, i am sure she does…”
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That’s the problem, she ONLY thinks that loving them matters, NOT TEACHING THEM RIGHT FROM WRONG, SETTING A GOOD EXAMPLE, OR THE MANY THINGS WHICH REQUIRE PATIENCE, MATURITY, AND EVEN SACRIFICES A PARENT MUST MAKE FOR THEIR CHILDREN. SHE ONLY THINKS “LOVING THEM” IS ENOUGH, AND APPARENTLY, SHE DOESN’T LOVE THEM AS MUCH AS STARBUCKS, ADNAN, GAS STATION BATHROOMS, AND AIRING OUT HER TWAT!!!!!!
I don’t have any doubt that she loves her kids. But loving them is not enough. She needs to actually mother them, and she’s not fit to do that, and shows no signs of wanting to become fit to do it.
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She has every possible advantage in getting the best help imaginable, from staying at a plush private resort-like psychiatric facility to hiring a private team of experts to guide and teach her anything she wants to know. She could do so much for herself, for her kids, but she won’t do any of it.
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Her grandiose statement that she would “do anything” for her kids is obviously nothing more than hot air, because she won’t do anything for them, or for herself.
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And yes, I know she’s very mentally ill. I have more understanding of that than I care to go into, but there DOES come a point where you have to accept the wake up calls. She’s gotten several. She won’t answer the phone.
She never had any intention of going into that court. She was there for attention. The dress, the fake fear of the photographers, the church, running through the mall, etc. All planned to get her some attention and reaffirm the court’s opinion of her. She looked fairly happy to me, certainly not like someone who didn’t want to lose her kids. She was already resigned to the fact that she wasn’t going to get any visitation and it appears she welcomed it. She is mocking everyone and everything around her. Can’t blame her, she hasn’t ever been able to speak her own mind and now it’s pouring out. There’s a certain amount of freedom that comes with everyone thinking you are crazy. Now she can do or say anything she wants. She’s created her own do-over.
kevin is the only one not telling her how beautiful and smart and talented she is. he tells her the truth and that is before she sees her kids again, she needs to get help with her problems. it’s sad that it has to be this way, and although some might think it is cruel, it is the best thing for the boys right now.
Some people will only respond and do something when they hit rock bottom. Britney is STILL not at her rock bottom
I can tell you where britney’s rock bottom is:
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GIVING UP HER CURRENT LIFESTYLE AND ASSUMING RESPONSIBILITY FOR, AND MAKING PERSONAL SACRIFICES FOR HER KIDS. THATS THE WORST POSSIBLE SCENARIO IN HER MIND, AND YES, SUCK IT FANTARDS, SUCK IT!!!!! YOU KNOW IT’S TRUE!!!!!!!!!
God wouldn’t that suck for her if she had to admit to all of her screw ups, and take responsibilty for all of her mistakes, all that people she’s hurt and dissapointed over the years. And if she had to admit to the mental illness and drug use and plastic surgery and lip synching and lord knows what else. If she actually served community service and jail time, and spent a year in lock down with other mentally deranged people who are going to point to her pamepered lifestyle and say, “Shut the fuck up, you never had to work a day in your life, and who are you to complain when you have the resources to live a normal life but refuse to when other people are born into poverty and have to work their way up only to get trampled by selfish people like you.”
Imagine if she had to face the fact that all the stories told about her were true and her friends had to go to jail for being enablers and drug users as well, and she had to admit that what they say about her is true.
Imagine if she had to work through her problems rather than having her fans blame them on someone else.
That would be way too diffficult for someone as weak and chick hearted as Britney to face.
Kelly 1 asked: “Why would a caring mother choose not to utilize the tools she has to help her regain custody?”
Anything that I could say would simply be my own hallucination (like all the other comments on here). To answer this question fully, I’d have to talk to her. But she’s clearly not crazy. I’m not sure why I’m even interested in this question. I’m not a fan. I rarely read or watch the news. But I have a background in psychology, and the psychobabble I keep hearing about her is bugging me. All of these armchair diagnoses clearly have one purpose: to sell stuff (including ego). Anyone deserves better than that, even if they are part of the “industry.” I’ve worked with mothers who had similar behavior patterns–and who had been written off by their caseworkers–but with a tiny bit of help I’ve seen some of them get back on their feet and regain custody.
Did they “care?” It’s such a loaded word with so many meanings. The way I saw it, yes, they did.
You are ignoring that this situation gives us an enormous opportunity to learn about mental illness. And I don’t know what country you are in, but in America there is a tremendous ignorance and stigma around mental illness. We need these conversations. We need people to recognize mental illness and be willing to act when they see when spiral out of control just as we train people in CPR. We need people to not be embarrased to get helpk, we need employers to encourage their employees to seek therapy even when there is no actual mental illness, and we need our insurance companies to understand that we would spend a helluvalout less on medical care if we took care of mental health issues. We also need people to act before women hold their children hostage and before a student kills their classmates. You may not think that this is good, but it truly is good that America is being forced to watch someone melt down and that we as a country are asking why this is happening to her. If you truly have a background in pscholgy then you would know that what we are seeing clearly means that she has a mental disorder, and as she insists upon living her life in the eye of the paz, we have very real hints about what that illness is, and if you really had a background in psychology, you would know that while bipolar is treatable, that Britney is exhibiting extreme illness and that she is clearly comorbid, and clearly dying in front of our eyes. Britney can afford the best therapy the world has to offer and yet she is not getting help. As a person with a background, you should be more bothered by the danger she is to society, herself, her children, and any of her fans who might still want to emulate her actions, than you are by people trying to understand and learn about her condition.
Kelly, I agree 100% that this is a great opportunity to educate and be educated about mental illness and related issues. That’s why I keep talking about it; it’s unfortunately a subject with which I have a great deal of experience and a lot of knowledge.
Why do you always utilize personal attacks as a form of rebuttal? What background do you have in psychology? All I hear from your is the same long winded opinion, assited by lengthly quotes from a textbook. I doubt you have any first hand experience with half of what you preach.
yeah, those behavior patterns are symptoms of many mental illness. britney is truly gone.
those other ppl each of their stories is very individual, just cuz they are showing similar behaviour patterns means nothing. their illness is different and perhaps less complex, so they reached for the help cuz they in fact are at rock bottom.
kevin is behind all of this.
meaning.
what if he is calling the paps, what if he is making her crazy, cuz we all know she is really over dramatic and kevin is trying to make everyone believe she is sick cuz of her theatrics and being eccentric ?
just what if ?
Britney’s problems stem from a controlling mother, an alcoholic father and a family history of mental illness, KFed didn’t cause those problems. Kfed didn’t force her at gun point to show her vagina to the paz, he isn’t forcing her to date a paz, he didn’t make her hit a car with an umbrella. She did these things all on her own.
Wow, do you suppose he made her grandmother commit suicide in a fit of severe depression, too? And made her father an addict? Maybe he knocked up Jamie Lynn, too!
“…Wow, do you suppose he made her grandmother commit suicide in a fit of severe depression, too?…”
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My guess is she thought “OH MY GOD, I AM PARTLY RESPONSIBLE FOR BRINGING THE WORST MOTHER THIS WORLD WILL EVER SEE INTO THIS WORLD!!!!!!!”
Well, I know you’re just being a smartarse, but Britney’s grandmother died long, long before Britney was ever conceived. So unless Grandma had a working crystal ball AND serious mental illness, I think it probably wasn’t a factor.
“…I know you’re just being a smartarse…”
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Yes, definitely.
i am a 26 year old female with a 2 year old child, and there is no way in this world that i will let my mother near my child, or myself for that matter. nor did i let my ex husband see him either ( til he got a clue ), i am an emotional person, every reaction i have to any action is based on emotion ( which i have seeked help for and have control ).
i too did stupid things, i didnt show my vagina, but, i did do things just as disgusting, but in different ways. that doesnt happen anymore. everyone thought i was nuts, but in the end, after i got help by myself with one friend, i have realized that it is her ( mother figure ) that is indeed in denial of her own mental illness.
since severing ties with the problem, i have since flourished, i have a great job, bought a new house, i am relieved of the abuse i received from the mother figure.
i had a horrible childhood from the very early age of 6. details do not matter cuz how you get there is different for everyone, but the end result is the same.
i am not defending britney, nor i am condemning, i am only sharing a story of a part of my life . whats happening to her reminded me of me.
I gotta plan to drive people wild…
I know you might be knew to this site but could you like make your name a little different from mine. Actually i sound pompus lol so it’s up to you.
I have believed from the get-go that Britney actually doesn’t want these children and by forcing the court to deny visitation then she can justify it in her mind that they were “taken away” from her. I think she does love them but I don’t think she wants the commitment or the responsibility. Those children will pay for their parents forever!
And then her fans can blame it on Kfed and Britney’s rid of the kids she doesn’t want and does not have to take responsibilty for the fact that against the advise of her closest family, she brought two children in the world she could not care for.
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