For all those years that Britney Spears barely addressed her fans, she has definitely written something to make up for it…at least in terms of word count. This is the latest messageon her official site. My thoughts are to come later…
Dear Fans,
I just wanted to reach out to all of you and explain some of the things that I have been faced with recently.
It’s so funny how many stories are put out there about people. It’s like we all want our side of the story out there as well, but at the end of the day only a few people care to hear what is really going on since the bad is always so much more interesting than the truth. I don’t know why, but this is so weird to me. I used to be angry at the tabloids for printing horrible things about me, but now I try to just be numb to what I see. I saw Tyra Banks once get really upset and cry on her show because they made her look fat. We all want a certain image of ourselves out there, and at some point we all do really care what other people think or we wouldn’t be here.
Recently, I was sent to a very humbling place called rehab. I truly hit rock bottom. Till this day I don’t think that it was alcohol or depression. I was like a bad kid running around with ADD. I had a manager from a long time ago come in and try to direct me and my life after I got my divorce. I was so overwhelmed I think that I was in a little shock too. I didn’t know who to go to. I realized how much energy and love I had put into my past relationship when it was gone because I genuinely did not know what to do with myself, and it made me so sad. I confess, I was so lost.
This letter is to not place blame on anyone, although I do see the world with a completely different set of eyes now. Being in that vulnerable state and taken to dinners and parties with friends and finding out later you paid for everything was a huge learning lesson for me. I think the whole problem was letting too many people into my life. You never know another persons[sic] intentions or what another person wants. I feel I was too open and looking for answers when I had it all to begin with. I have had to cut so many people out of my life. It is so sad, because if anyone is a family person…it is me. When I was little I remember every night watching movies with my family and feeling so at peace. Dancing and singing all the time just like a little girl should. Now recently I find with my children that I want them to have that feeling all of the time. I am having to face a lot of things right now since I have children of my own. A lot of insecurities from when I was little are coming up again. It is like we are never good enough.
I know everyone thinks that I am playing the victim, but I am not and I hate what is going on right now so much. Maybe this is the reason for this letter…to maybe allow people to look at me differently. It is like when you are a real woman and say what you feel and how you think things are supposed to be, that people just say you are a “bitch.”
I feel like some of the people in my life made more of some issues than was necessary. I also feel like they knew I was beginning to use my brain for a change and cut some ties, so they wanted to be in more control of my life than me. I think it is actually normal for a young girl to go out after a huge divorce. I think it was a bigger issue because I had not gone out in such a long time.
I am 25 and I do still have a lot to learn, and I am going to make mistakes everyday, and I am sure every mistake I make will probably be on CNN or Good Morning America. I am only human people and I love you for still loving me.
I am sitting here at home and it is 6:25 and both of my sons are asleep. I am truly blessed to have them in my life. Everyday is so surreal. Life in general is so surreal and crazy.
I just hope this letter made some of you think a little bit more of me and where I am coming from. I just want the same things in life that you want…and that is to be happy.
It is just so weird because everyone has their own perception of me and how they think I really am. It is so weird how stories are told. There is your side, my side, and the truth. Somebody has to figure it out. I guess we will never really understand or figure out life completely. That’s God’s job. I can’t wait to meet him…or her.
Love, Britney
Quote of the month…
It is ok to disagree with people regarding certain issues. You’re not being true to yourself if you succumb to others opinions because you feel guilty
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Dear Britney,
I have seen the news reports on tv and constant bad tabloids written about you and i have also read your statement above. I’m 18 years old from Austin, Texas and i have to say that i have enjoyed your performances on stage and as a young teenage icon. I think that you should be more careful by your surroundings and the people around including ones you socialize with because they are getting in the way of you being a good mom and an incredible entertainer. I am sadden by what has happen in the situation of also the custody of your children the people in austin, tx love you and are opening are home to you. My mom is not into alot of pop music but she is very touched when you saw what beautiful children you had and what a wonderful mother you can be. Put god first and go somewhere that feels like home get away from the news and cameras that’s all they want to do is take pictures and make false statements to put you in the paper as false advertisement thats what our nation is based on gossip it draws the attention of the world. We give you an invitation to come stay with us so that you can come back as the strong entertainer we know you are please respond to my email our prayers are with you. It’s time you focus on Britney Spears and shut out the world right now. But one thing I will say stay strong AND DON’T DO ANYTHING STUPID keep your strong composure that you had everybody goes through something one time in there life. you can also reach me at my house 512-278-0570 we care, we honestly care, we care…. love from me and my family
yawwwwwwnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
nora…. then dont read it!!!!
i wonder how this site will comment about this…
oopss… i mean kelli…. xori nora
Probably the most honest “letter of truth” she has ever written.I miss the days however where Britney’s private life was just that and all we did on the wob boards was speculative but the days of Perezhilton and TMZ pretty much killed that.
I’m in awe this girl is still standing and aside from her fashion “mistakes” as some would say,she sure has changed from a few months ago.Im giving her the benefit of the doubt here.Most wont but this girl with the “X factor” still has me.hmmm
Jesse you think she actually wrote it? Britney can’t eat or drink without spilling something on her clothes! She considers “Y’all” a proper noun! She thinks “Back to the Future” time travel is possible!
I have ADHD and I never act like that but ooooookay. Whatever makes her feel better.
she said she was LIKE a kid with ADD…
Like a kid with ADD????? She was vulnerable! Her friends were taking advantage of her and leaving her with the tab!!! Her manager didn’t want her making her own decisions, even if those choices were wrong and detrimental to her career!!!! THOSE NASTY, NASTY PEOPLE!!!!!….just like Britney to find somebody to blame, rather than taking responsibility for herself, HER decisions, and HER actions. Did her manager tell her to wear a FUCK ring, or a FUCK hat on the same day she’s taking her kids out for a boat ride?????????? Did her manager tell her to throw a fit because a plane’s seats weren’t leather, and to delay every single person on that plane’s arrival time so Britney could get just what she wanted, no matter what problems that caused everybody else on the plane?
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“…It is like when you are a real woman and say what you feel and how you think things are supposed to be, that people just say you are a “bitch.” No, Britney, you’re just a spoiled, selfish person who is too self-centered to be anything but a horrible mother. Put the attempt at fame away and do the only thing decent you have left-become a good mom for your two sons.
First of all, you’re naive if you think Britney wrote this herself. She has a high school degree and most of us can agree that she is not very smart. This looks like it was written by a college educated, perhaps graduate school educated professional - probably her lawyer. I don’t believe she can articulate her feelings this well nor do I believe she would spend the time doing so. Think about it. Would someone who didn’t think twice about addressing her fans besides a “thanks” at her concert really put in the time to write and edit something like this for her website? I don’t believe it. Actions speak louder than words. I will start believing that this is true once Britney can come out in public looking like a decent human being and celebrity as well as give all of her fans a great concert and acknowledgement in person during or after the concert.
You REALLY think that looked like it was written by a lawyer?! lmfao!
And, Britney is the uneducated one…right?
OinkOink britney co-wrote “im not a girl not yet a woman” enough said….
Britney Spears is a young women by today’s standards. I commend her for being a strong women and taking a stand again the betrayal of her mother. Keven federline is a user and a disgace to man kind. He is not a man, just a gold digger. When someone becomes so famous and has so much pressure at a young age it’s no wonder she acted like she did. I myself am a recovering addict… It isn’t easy being around drugs and alcohol and not using them especially when your a celebrity. Give the girl a break. She never did anything to anyone. She made some mistakes like all of us do, and why should she be labled a horrible person because of you she is. I like Britney… She is always nice to the invasive puperazi and is a good summeritan and a good mother… Leave her alone… She is a fabulous perfomer and has a great fashion sense. He mother and father betrayed her and I don’t blame her at all for anything she is doing right now… Good luck Brit and I support you 110 percent. Good luck and you look great…Keep it up and scrue what others think of you. They just wish they had what you did… Fame, popularity, and lost of money….People are just judgmental jealous pricks…Your the best and you true fans support you 100 percent….Rachel Goland…Good luck and your children are gorgeous and Kevin Federline is a money hungry piece of crap.
She is a Dumb ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jealously is a horrible thing and obviously who every wrote this has never been in a tough situation in their entire lives. It’s funny though… Britney has always lip synked at her concerts and no one over complained before. Maybe its because she had such an amazing figure which is very hard to keep up after you have two children and was a great performer. She is like Madonna…She will be around for a long time….She is actually quite smart… She dumbed that dubious gold digger and user Kevin Federline who will never be anything without her name attached to him. What a loser…Go back to fat ass shar jackson…Those two loosers belong together. Britney the shit and will be back stronger than ever.
This is like college edumactation yall.Are you serious?LOL.It’s pretty stupid to think you can determine how well someone can express themselves through writing by the grade they last passed.Ha
You know what’s “so weird” and “so crazy”? Shaving your head in public and hitting cars with umbrellas.
Britney was not simply “lost”.
The funniest quote is that she says… “Till this day I don’t think that it was alcohol or depression.” Did she mean to say “To this day..”? Till this day? That is incredibly poor grammar but would seem to indicate that she’s realized all of a sudden on this day that it was “alcohol” and “depression” that sent her to rehab… which seems to me to be a HUGE Freudian slip. Britney.. as a recovering alcoholic myself, ya might want to try some extended sobriety kiddo and see if it works. You know what drinking does to you don’t you? Try not drinking kiddo. You may find a bit more happiness. You didn’t end up in rehab because everything was going well for you. There’s nothing wrong with insecurities, it’s how you deal with them and CLEARLY drinking and drugging aren’t doing the trick. Try sobriety. You might like it. What have you got to loose?
uhhh… to tim: did you mean ‘what have you got to lose?’, rather than ‘loose’ (as in opposite of tight)… and SHE doesn’t know how to write? anywaysssssss… to everybody who comes on here ripping her apart, and actually taking time out of their lives to read up on Britney’s life, or comment as if you have any clue who she TRULY is - you’re all hypocritical and basically pathetic. go find a life of your own, and quit focusing on someone elses so called faults. you have no clue… none. you base all of your opinions on media coverage and photographs. it’s sad. why don’t you go watch some REAL news coverage, and put all of your negative energy towards something that actually affects your OWN life? but why would any of you want to do that?
That’s a lot of words to say ANSOLUTELY NOTHING BRitney!
This letter proves that you are still in denial about how serious your problems have been. Rehab doesn’t have time for people with ADD. You had a serious problem and that’s why they accepted you for treatment. And hunny, even if you truly believed it was ADD…if it’s so bad that a mother with two infant children who can not call 911 when their mommy collapses on the floor, or if it’s so bad that you are shaving your head and attacking people’s cars…what did you ever do to correct such problems? Nothing, except the rehab which you claim you didn’t need. ADD isn’t your problem girl, denial is. There is a reason why the judge wouldn’t let you have full custody of your children, and that is because you can not be honest about how dangerous you are to yourself and to others, and because you refuse to get the help you need.
You also proved that you still aren’t ready to tell the truth to your fans. That’s a clear indication that you are not sorry for hurting people, you are not sorry for anything except that you got caught and had to suffer the embarassment of going to rehab.
You lie about not blaming people. You are still blaming your family, and your maanagement as well as the general public, now. For all this bad blood between you and your family members you have never mentioned what horrible crimes they have committed against you. It’s easy to see that your mom was controlling, but your father, brother and sister? You are willing to cut them out of your life because you can not see how worried they are about you and that you do infact need help? If that’s the way you treat your family, then it’s no wonder that you have no concern for your fans.
You named your perfume “in control” and you badly need the public to believe that you are in control of your life. That’s a lie. You are not in control, and you will never be in control until you have the maturity to take responsibility for your own actions. You only take credit for the glory, and when you get smacked on the wrist you want to blame dear old mom. Mom ain’t there anymore, you threw her out, remember? It’s just you and your lonely and ruined life. Your 25 years old Britney, it’s time for you to grow up and admit your mistakes in words, and own them. Admit you took drugs, that you are a high school dropout, that you flaunted your body, got pregnant with a man you didn’t even know. You are responsible for where your life is and where your failed career is right now. Only when you can admit to that will you be “in control” until then you are still the whiny, bratty Britney who cried to Matt Lauer about no privacy and then flashed your vagina the next month. Grow up.
Oh,. and it’s nice to see that you still take advantage of serious issues to promote yourself. You don’t give a damn about worshipping God. Your concept of God is telling people that you are Godly and deserving of hero’s worship (like when you pranced around in that video as if no woman had ever been pregnant before)and chastising people for talking about your sins. Of course they are going to talk, you are unrepentant, and you pretend to above the law. Throw the first stone, Britney. You don’t care about anyone’s soul, you just want to make people feel like they are committing a terrible sin against god when they talk about your unconfessed sins. You don’t care that youyr name is one CNN. You just can’t handle that people don’t like you and don’t approve of your irresponsible and psychotic behaviors. You live a very public life and your flaws will be held up to public scrutiny, I don’t like it either. But you are the one, and your fans are the ones who pretend you are a flawless goddess. IF it wasn’t for that people wouldn’t care so much what you did. But when you pretend that you havn’t done drugs and the proof is all there for the public to see, and you choose to have your drug addicted melt down in public, then the fact that people talk about you is your own fault. IF you can’t take the heat, then get out of California. Quit saying that you are only human and deserve to be forgiven. Honey, you haven’t admitted any sins, so what are we to forgive you for? The only time you want us to believe you are human is when you do something wrong, any other time you ask us to believe that you are a god and better than all of us. As you can see, there is a great discrepancy there. You know it’s there and you flaunt it to sell records….the devil and the angel, the girl next door and the sex addict. It’s not our fault that you don’t know who you are. It’s an act that they taught you to sell records and it’s confused your head so much that you haven’t got a clue who you are when no one is watching you. That’s why you have to walk around half naked in public to get a reaction. Because underneath that hostile glare is a sad little girl who doesn’t know who she is. It’s really quite sad.
You thought that being a mother would give you an identity and fix your career, or else give you a convenient happy ever after exit from the music business. You flounced around and wrote a song about how you were doing God’s will by giving birth. But now that have babies, all you want to do is party. You weren’t ready to be a mom, and yet you still hold it against your mother and anyone else who tried to stop you from going down this path. You couldn’t party for two years because you were pregnant for two years, but you blame it on Kevin when you were the one dying to be a mother. And when you were let loose from Kevin, you didn’t just party. You drugged and drank yourself into a stupor. When we see you with your children now, it’s generally someone else holding your children, and you never hold one child at all. Again, you want the glory and none of the work, none of the blame. You can say that I don’t know you and I only see half of your life, but Britney the judge had access to the other half of your life and he or she decided that you weren’t a fit enough mother to have full custody. So tell me I don’t know you, but then tell me what the judge knows about you that I don’t. Uh-ha….see, you aren’t ready to be honest. This letter is probably just another one of your stunts. You need to reply to your father, and Felicia, Justin, Kevin and everyone else without making it sound like you are giving them the time of day. So how many people are you at war with in your life? Everybody, huh? Don’t you think that’s a clue that you are the one who needs to change?
You didn’t hit rock bottom.
You hit rock bottom and kept on falling.
If you don’t wake up, you will die young, and your babies will learn who you are from reading the tabloids.
holy shit, kelly! please seek counseling or something for your bizarre infatuation with a celebrity’s life. you act as if you know britney or people associated with her personally. weird. that is by far one of the creepiest comments i’ve ever read. the fact that ALL of your statements are just tabloid stories drilled into your head is SCARY!
by the way… are the decisions that Britney makes with HER life really affecting you to the point that you feel SO strongly about your ‘opinions’? yikes. you might want to find something more constructive to do with your free time. although, it seems you might have a little too much of that. …people are truly ignorant… and judgemental… and lame.
I totally agree with you. Kelly has put way too much time and energy into hating Britney. By the way, kelly, she didn’t say she had ADD, she said “she was LIKE a kid with ADD”. It’s called a “metaphor”. So, maybe she did “just go to high School”, but apparently, that’s all she needed to make millions. I’m still a fan no matter what. She has made the same mistakes a lot of us have, just our mistakes don’t get published in the tabs… I know that’s the price of fame, but it’s the truth. If Brit was just some girl in town, nothing she has done so far would be worth talking about. But since she is a celeb, we’re all here talking about her. i’m sure she loves it, the attention and all. And I think that’s exactly what she’s doing, looking for attention, maybe “feeling” her fans out-seeing if they are still there. Well, I am. To those of you that think she’s fake, immature, irresponsible, whatever— I believe she is trying. Good lick Brit.
Oh–does anyone know where I can get one of those F.U.C.K. rings?!?!?!?
meant to say “good luck” the “i” and the “u” are soo close…..Hey–maybe that was my “Fraudian” slip!!!lol
THIS is what Britney was talking about–how people will perpetually put her down no matter WHAT she says. Yes, I think Britney wrote this, and I’ve analyzed the writing style and compared it some things I know she did write, as well as the way she speaks. Britney has tested for a 125 IQ-nothing exceptional, but for a woman of 26 that WOULD necessitate basic literacy, yes? I see no PhD worthy writing here, only normal adult writing capabilities, more than some of you commenters can manage.
I personally thought her message was sincere and well articulated and I enjoyed it.
I realize that she may not have written it despite my analyses, but then, who CAN I trust entirely? The news? It has been shown to be skewed. The courts? They lie and seal up cases. There is a very large chance that she didn’t write this, but my gut instinct and my reasoning tell me there’s a large chance that she DID write this. Choose to believe what you believe…please don’t insult others so barbarically please.
kELLY, IF ONLY YOU WOULD TAKE THAT MUCH ENERGY OUT TO DO SOMETHING CONSTRUCTIVE FOR YOURSELF PROBABLY YOUR LIFE WOULD BE BETTER OFF FROM WHAT IT IS NOW. u know what, some1 wise once said that whatever it is about the other person that irritates u, its cos that irritates you about yourself… so if you are going ON and ON about how bad a mother she is, probably u r worse, or are worried u’d make a worse mom than she is.. or are plain jealous that at least she has kids. Besides mind you, she is doing enough to secure a future for her kids. a bright one that may include fee to the best colleges in the country - can you? the fact thta she is a HIGH SCHOOL DROPOUT - and yet rich, sucessful and all at 25 - probably that bugs you the most - coz either YOU are a DROPOUT yourself and not 1/10th of what she is/has OR you went to IVY league and are still sweeping floors or manning the copy machine. IT Samazing - cant u see she has been used ? so whats the big deal if she says it so? About the balme game - its never 100% on 1 person. it takes 2 or more right? or probably U have been blameed for everything and now u wanna take it out on her and the world. at least she is at war with people in HER LIFE. u are ar war with her whaen u dont even know her address. JUST KNOW ONE THING KELLY. MIKE ETC - SHE MAY BE TRASH, A WHORE. A SLUT OR WHATEVER, BUT ONE THING WILL ALWAYS REMAIN - THAT SHE WILL GIVE HER KIDS A WAY BETTER LIFE THAN SHE EVER HAD - AND IN DOING SO, SHE WOULD HAVE DONE HER BEST AS A MOTHER AND A PERSON. how many of us know how it is to be 25, a mom and a superstar? we dont. do we knbow how we would have behaved in her situation? i know there are worse situations than hers, but come one, we can t sit in judgement over ones life ESP if he/she is NOT HARMING ANYONE. if you want to direct your angst at someone = make it our politicians, the terrorists etc - at least it will be well directed
Are you kidding alcaatras? You think Britney is a good mother? Holy crap! Theres no end to the ignorance of the enablers and apologists. You guys always use the “get a life” defense to marginalize those who speak out against Britney, but at least her “haters” as you call them have their facts straight! And your desperate, wanna-be pop psychologist attack of kelly is sad, just sad.
LOL!! Not even close…it just bothers you that I am right about your little whore idol. I do things every day that Britney can never and will never do. We all do. We live normal lives, graduate, go to college, take credit for our mistakes, and all of this without showing our vaginas or penises to papz to get attention.
Guess what I just learned…someone vomited into a toilet in a hotel this weekend. Why was she staying at a hotel when her home was so close by? If she doesn’t have a drinking problem then why did she have to get carried out of the hotel and apologize for her life being so messed up?
Go ahead, deny it all you like…but just remember that your denails can not save BRitney from her problems. If I told you last year that she would be in this mess you would have laughed at me, and yet here she is. Just remember when she dies or kills someone like LIndsay almost did this weekend…that I told you so.
i like her letter. i think it was honest and real and written by her. whether it’s completely right or wrong, she’s trying to reach out and reconnect and share herself. i don’t think still wanting a career makes her a bad parent. i hope this is the beginning of a new start for her and that she comes back as the kickass performer she always has been. i feel she’s on the right track and acknowledging her errors and moving on. she’s an amazingly talented girl and i hope that she begins to use it again.
The letter is definitely very mature and great for people to read. Britney knows she had/has problems with people in her life and her life in general. Admitting that is the first step to fixing things. We can’t criticize her and think less of her because she’s only human, she makes mistakes. I’m sure some of your friends or even you have made worse mistakes. All she did was desperately wanted someone to love, married them, had kids, unfortunately it didn’t work out, got divorced, went out often and messed up (how? we really don’t know) and is trying to get it back together. She’s human.
She didn’t even need to write the letter. She owes no one an explanation. Maybe her family but not the public or her fans, the fans are there to love what she does, go to her concerts and buy her albums, they are not in her personal life. It’s great she wrote a public letter but she didn’t need to do it. I’m glad she did though, maybe people will shut up a bit about her and stop acting like they know all about her.
i think this is another publicity stunt. she wasn’t getting any attention this last weekend, so let’s get everyone talking again. she has never admitted anything wrong, but now all of a sudden in between all of her tanning appointments and her Miami flop she comes to this revelation? i don’t think so. but, idiots by the masses will believe and follow. (sounds kinda like the anti-christ when put that way.)
i am not convinced!!!!!
Um Kelly, hun…get a hobby because I am a fan of Britney’s and yet I still wouldn’t spend so much time going on some tangent the way you did. I don’t know if it s because you feel she has let YOU down personally, who would know.
And to the people that say that others who only have high school diplomas are stupid…you need to broaden your horizons and get some perspective in life. High school is enough to get you to the point to which you would narrow your studies to a specific vocation. I have technically only received a high school diploma..I went to university, left because I couldn’t afford it…does this make me less smart than someone who has finished a basic degree…no. If you atually look you will find that alot of people are smart…and yet successful…Richard Branson never went to university and look where he is today.
Don’t like her…. Don’t read about her… Your just perpetuating what you speak about.
I am happy to have read the letter, it gave me back some of my faith in her.
This goes out to everyone but mostly to Kelly and Mike G.
This has nothing to do with if you like or hate Britney, if you believe she wrote this letter or not, or if she has a drug or alcohol problem or just simply lost her mind. The mistakes she made are to herself and to her kids and no one is really forgiving her just yet, I don’t even believe that her die hard fans have either, I think they are just giving her a chance to see if she actually means what was said in this famous letter.
My real point is this, I come to this site from time to time and each time I read these comments that people like Kelly and Mike write, I feel disgust each time, because they are promoting hatred, they are verbally abusing people you may call your right (Freedom of speech) but you are actually brain washing a lot of young kids. I know you don’t think so, but you are, we all know that kids like to repeat what big people do or say, so when they read stuff like this, they will repeat and this becomes a real issue, this is why we have shootings in schools with 13 or 14 years olds are shooting there peers because somebody call them a name just like the names Britney has been called. Britney has really not been a real role model in the last 3 years, but once upon a time she was, she followed her dream and became a mega star, back them she did promote something that dreams do come true, but I totally agree that these couple of years she has just done the opposite, but so are you by promoting hatred through your comments you are really not any better than she. I know this is not going to stop, you will continue to write disgusting things, but I hope before you do next time, you will think maybe a very young person might read this and get influenced to say things like this to an others then, another, and another and it never ends, until one day one of this kids are going to get feed up of the insults they’ll just show up to school with a gun and attempted to kill those who have insulted them in the passed. So you see your words, your comments might /will effect some innocent child who doesn’t deserve to be treated this way, just because you felt that it was your right to comment on Britney, Lindsay, Paris or the new scarlet of that year.
This may very well be far fetched but at the same time it can be very real, take it the way you want.
I’m not sure that any of you have any knowledge of the industry and how artists are treat. Think about it in a way as looking after a small child, you have someone who tells you what time to wake up, what to eat, what to wear, what to say, when to go for a meeting, what decisions are good for you etc, she says it herself “I also feel like they knew I was beginning to use my brain for a change and cut some ties, so they wanted to be in more control of my life than me., Think for just a few minutes, how that would affect you as a person, day in, day out, year after year after year. What’s happened with Britney has happened to many young artists/actors/actresses, I mean look at Drew Barrymore, she was younger and really went off the rails!! It’s far easier to judge quickly, it’s easy for you to say what she should and shouldn’t do, I bet most of you dislike it when people are quick to judge you on the things you do.
I personally feel for her, if you don’t have family and friends that not only ground you, but are honest with you, then it’s really easy to fall off the rails and have your world perception turned upside down.
The only way she’ll get out of all of this is if she has someone who’s a genuinely good person and one she can trust to guide her through